Leaning Into Discomfort: Where Breakthrough Begins

Choose the Middle Seat...

At Desta Therapy, we often tell our clients something that might sound a little unexpected: Growth doesn’t happen in our comfort zones. It happens when we lean into the discomfort we’d rather avoid.

We get it — therapy can be hard. It can feel awkward, intimidating, or even scary to sit across from someone (or meet them on a screen) and begin unpacking the stuff you’ve buried for years. But the truth is, those uncomfortable moments in therapy are often where the most meaningful breakthroughs begin.

The Middle Seat Metaphor

Let’s put it this way—have you ever dreaded sitting in the middle seat on an airplane? You're squeezed between two strangers, no window to lean on, no easy escape to the aisle. It's vulnerable and uncomfortable.

But then something surprising happens. You start talking to the person next to you. Maybe both of them. Before long, you’re having a rich conversation, exchanging stories, and laughing about things you didn’t expect. What started as discomfort turned into connection.

This is exactly what happens in therapy. The “middle seat” moments — where you feel unsure, exposed, or raw — can open the door to new insight, healing, and freedom.

Therapy Is Supposed to Be a Little Uncomfortable

It’s normal to want to avoid hard feelings or painful memories. Maybe you’ve been putting off counseling because you're afraid of what might come up. Or maybe you’ve started therapy, but feel the urge to cancel when things get too real.

At Desta Therapy, we want to gently remind you: that discomfort is a signal, not a stop sign.

Our licensed therapists — serving both in-person clients in San Antonio and online clients across Texas — create a safe, non-judgmental space for you to explore what feels difficult. And while we never rush you, we do encourage you to stay present, especially when it feels challenging.

Why? Because right on the other side of discomfort is breakthrough:

• That moment when you finally name a feeling you’ve been avoiding.

• The day you say something out loud you’ve never shared with anyone.

• The first time you realize you’re not broken — you’re just healing.

  
  

These are the moments that change everything.

Discomfort Is Where Change Begins

Whether you’re working through anxiety, relationship struggles, grief, trauma, or just feeling stuck, counseling can help you move forward — but only if you’re willing to walk through some uncomfortable terrain. You don’t have to do it alone.

At Desta Therapy, we walk beside you. Whether you prefer the comfort of your home with online sessions, or want the in-person connection at our San Antonio offices, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Ready to Lean In?

We know it’s hard. But if you’re ready to lean into the discomfort—just a little—you might be surprised by the clarity, peace, and strength that’s waiting for you.

Let’s find your breakthrough, together.

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In-Person & Online Counseling – San Antonio, Texas

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